Lifestyle

Current Expectations

  1. We will always love and remain faithful to each other.
  2. We will always respect our limits and safewords to their absolute fullest.
  3. We will work past soft limits over time, and hard limits if requested, discussed at length, and determined to be workable and not be insurmountable or insufferable.
  4. We will have a safeword for physical distress and a safeword for emotional distress.

Eiren’s Expectations

  1. Evelyn will always tell me the full truth.
  2. Evelyn will make me do things that she or I have identified as important to me or my health, regardless of how uncomfortable it makes her or me.
  3. Evelyn will refer to me as Mistress in private, Ma’am in public, and whatever she is most comfortable saying around friends & family. My attitude permitting, she may call me any combination of these things over the internet.

Evelyn’s Expectations

  1. Eiren will always tell me the full truth outside of play.

Play in this scenario denotes a scene, or a surprise (such as a present), and in other words means that she may lie to me only under those two circumstances.

Example of a permissible half-truth: Eiren tells me that she will allow me to orgasm at the end of a scene, but refrains from mentioning that she plans to ruin it.

Example of a permissible lie: Eiren tells me that she has nothing planned for my Birthday, when in reality she has bought us both tickets to see Wicked.


Current Rules

  1. Evelyn may not speak back or out of turn without permission.
  2. Evelyn may not sit on the furniture without permission.

Her computer chair and the shoe stool are exceptions, unless she exhibits bad behaviour or abuses this privilege, in which case it will be taken away.


Current Commands

  • Finger Snap – Evelyn will stop talking, close her mouth, and pay attention to Mistress Eiren.
  • Heel – Evelyn will immediately prostrate herself on her knees. Her nose will stay in contact with the ground, feet and hands will rest flat, and her eyes will remain open to stare at the floor in submission to her Mistress.